A Date with Garrison & Other Weekend Happenings

We have had a really fun and long weekend this President's Day weekend. Having an extra day with daddy home as we kick off our Winter Break from school has been wonderful. Saturday was jam packed and then yesterday and today have been super low key. It's been a good combination of busy and fun but still relaxing.

We kicked things off on Saturday when we took Garrison to the circus. This was part of his birthday present from us and something we were all really excited about... that is until Friday night when he realized for sure that Austin wouldn't be going with us. I was putting him to bed and he kept saying things like, But I'm gonna miss him. Austin likes animals doing tricks. He really likes dat. But I wish he could go. I'm gonna miss him. Then I tried explaining that this was a special birthday present for Garrison- sort of like a date with mama and daddy, and that for Austin's birthday we would have a date with just him and he (Garrison) would stay home with somebody. So that led to, but I'm gonna miss ya'll. I'm gonna be sad when I can't go. I'm gonna really miss Austin. Which led to me questioning the whole idea of the birthday date for each individual child and sort of broke my heart.

Terrell and I talked about it and my laid back/whatever/totally chill of a husband said it was no big deal, we would play it by ear with each child each birthday. So there. Problem solved. According to Terrell. It still sort of had me in turmoil while analyzing the whole thing and hoping neither of my boys will be scarred from this little plan of ours...

Thankfully Garrison woke up super excited Saturday morning and even told Austin where we were going and that he couldn't go. Guess his sympathy only lasted so long. I do have to say though he was very informative and helpful giving Granna lots of tips and instructions on Austin's routine, toys, food, etc. He made sure Austin would be well taken care of. It was very sweet and big brotherly of him.

Ready for our day of fun!

 

Austin and Granna- his play mate for the day

We left around 9:00 Saturday morning, drove to the nearest Marta station, froze while we waited for our train, and then rode all the way into Atlanta to Philips Arena. Garrison loved the train ride but wasn't nearly as impressed as last year. It was a still a fun part of our day though.

Granna had given him money for a souvenir from the circus and that was the first thing he wanted to do. We thought he'd pick out one of the overpriced glow in the dark swords or spinning things that every other kid had but he chose a fourwheeler and race car. Nothing to do with the circus but what he wanted without a doubt!

He loved the circus... especially all the animals. He was also pretty wowed by the motocycles. His favorite parts were the elephants and tigers... and picking out 2 toys! It lasted 2 hours so by the time it wrapped up he was hungry (very hungry) and super tired. We braved the crowds at the CNN Center and ate our lunch on the floor. That place was crazy packed. There were cheerleaders everywhere. And circus go-ers. We left there and got back on the train as soon as we could. We had a really fun day together... and Austin had a good day too!

Saturday night we headed down to Griffin to meet my mom's side of the family for dinner at a nice restaurant to celebrate my Paw Paw's 87th birthday. We're so glad we got to go. It was fun for the kids and nice to be able to celebrate with Paw Paw and the rest of the family.

Yesterday we slept in, bought groceries, went out for ice cream (even though it was freezing!), and made a quick trip to Wal-Mart. Today's been more of the same except we're mainly hanging out at home. The boys have loved having daddy here to play with them. And I've enjoyed a break in the routine! Now I'm looking forward to some fun outings with the boys this week as we enjoy our break!

Valentine's Day 2013

We had a fun Valentine's Day yesterday. It was really laid back yet still special for the whole fam. Celebrating with 2 little boys made it even more fun.

Can you tell I'm loving my new chalkboard? I'm enjoying writing little messages on it so much. I'm thinking I need a bigger one in the future though.  

Garrison went to school yesterday specifically because it was Valentine's Day and so he wouldn't miss out on his class party. Terrell and I stayed up late Tuesday night making his and Austin's little Valentines to pass out. Austin's class celebrated on Wednesday since his class doesn't meet on Thursdays. These are the same ones I did for Garrison last year and he insisted he wanted them again. About halfway through making 30 of these I was wondering why I didn't pick some up from Wal-Mart. Maybe next year I can figure out something cutesy but EASY.

Austin and I joined Garrison for his party. Baby boy got to sit at the table and eat a Valentine cookie just like big brother.

After we got home and Garrison went through all his goodies and everyone had naps, we had a little play time outside. It was a tad chilly but so pretty after the rainy week we've had that we just couldn't stay in. They loved getting outside.

Terrell and I decided to give them their Valentine stuff from us right before heading out the door to pick up our take-out and dessert. They opened their cards (Garrison's had stickers and Austin's had a talking Elmo)...

Then they opened their bag of snacks. (Plus Garrison got a pack of stickers.) They both got a heart full of candy plus some healthy snacks. They were pretty excited. =)

 

Then they opened their other cards and goodies. Pops and Nana had given them a little tin of goodies, plus they got cards in the mail from Granna and Papa and Nanny.

We told them they are 2 very special and very LOVED little boys. 

After we made the mad rush to get our fancy take-out and dessert we all got settled and ate together. Our food was delicious. Terrell and I both ate way too much. It was SO good. Then we gave the boys dessert because we were way too full to eat another bite.

While the boys had dessert we decided to read our hearts from our "I love you because" jar. Garrison did the honors of taking out the hearts one at a time and telling us who they were from. We read Austin's first, then Garrison's, then Terrell's, then mine. It was sweet and special and everyone enjoyed it. Even Austin smiled proudly when we read his.

It would take forever for me to list out what all 32 hearts said so I'll just do a couple...

Austin's Favorites:
I love you because you give me hugs. -Garrison
I love you because you like me to read to you. -Mama
I love you because you always come and check on me in the mornings. -Daddy

Garrison's Favorites:
I love you because you are the best paci finder! -Austin
I love you because you love to play sports outside with me. -Daddy
I love you because you are such a good big brother. -Mama

Daddy's Favorites:
I love you because you still know how to make me laugh. -Meggie
I love you because you play with me. -Garrison
I love you because you hold me and let me climb on you. -Austin

Mama's Favorites...they were actually ALL my favorites but here are just a few:
I love you because you make me a better person. -Terrell
I love you because you take care of me. -Garrison
I love you because you read me my favorite books everyday. -Austin

After we got cleaned up from dinner we got the kids in the bath, made lunches, laid out clothes, and put them to bed. Plus they made a few thank you phone calls. Terrell and I had made plans to watch a movie... which almost didn't happen because both boys seemed to be on sugar highs or something... but we finally did! We watched Taken 2 (and ate our dessert!) We both really liked it. Can't go wrong with a suspenseful, action-packed movie with a good ending. And that's what Valentine's Day 2013 looked like at our house. =)

Here's what we were up to last year.

Project I Love You Because...

With Valentine's Day coming up tomorrow I thought I'd share something new our family is doing this year. It's sort of like a project but more about just being intentional with telling each other why we love each other. I got the idea after reading a blog post from one of my favorite "educational" type blogs (icanteachmychild.com) which led me to this post. (My husband just loves when I act on these ideas I find...read with sarcasm), Garrison on the other hand was thrilled with the idea right from the start. =)

I already had a similar idea of making a homemade card for Terrell and listing some of the reasons I love him on cutesy little construction paper hearts. Then, when I read the post mentioned above, I decided to make it a family affair. I changed and tweaked it just a little but the jist of it is to write down "I love you because" notes to each family member leading up to Valentine's Day. (We just started on Sunday but technically you could start whenever). Then we'll read them aloud around the table tomorrow night. I'm thinking I would really love for this to become a tradition... cause I'm slightly obsessed with traditions.

I decided to go with a color coded system to make it less confusing and perfectly equal right from the start. I cut out construction paper hearts in each family member's chosen color (8 each to be exact because that's how it worked out with the paper I had) and found a plastic jar that's actually supposed to be Christmas-themed I think but could pass for winter-y.

It doesn't really matter what you put your hearts or slips of paper in... I just wanted mine to be something clear so we could see it filling up. Mainly for Garrison.... okay, for me too.

So each family member writes a little "I love you because..." note on other family members hearts. If Garrison wants to write something to daddy, we grab a red heart (Terrell's hearts are red) and he tells me what it should say, then I write it down and sign his name. If I want to write something to Austin, I grab a dark blue heart because that's his color, jot down "I love you because..." and sign my name. Then we fold it up and drop it in the jar. Garrison wrote his little love notes all at once on day one. I've done mine throughout the week. Austin has done his when I do mine. (I'm pretty sure I know why he loves each family member for all different reasons.)

Most of the pink hearts (which are mine) were last to go in. BUT, in Terrell's defense, he was at a slight disadvantage because he doesn't have very much time at all when he's alone with the kids in the evenings. Or when I'm not around in general. Whereas I'm home without him all the time. Nonetheless, my loving hubs made sure my pink hearts were dropped in the jar on Valentine's Eve from him and the boys. =)

I'm looking forward to our take-out, fancy dessert, and reading of I love you because notes tomorrow night. I'm sure it will be fun and interesting and nothing like we expect. It's always an adventure around here!

*And I had to share just one more thing. A Valentine post all about showing love to your kids in different ways. It's full of great ideas and reminders that I definitely agree with and strive to implement already... or hope to in the future. Happy Valentine's Day tomorrow!

Valentine Program

Yesterday Garrison participated in his first ever "performance". And he did great!! I was such a proud mama.

Our preschool puts on a Valentine program every year and each class (except Austin's- the 1 year olds) participates and sings a few songs, recites a poem or two, and then the whole school sings together at the end. My class performed with Garrison's class (since they're both 3 year old classes) so I knew each and every song and got to be front and center when it was time for the performance.

This is a picture of Garrison once he spotted daddy. Precious. (I had to crop and zoom big time because my co-teacher and I were up positioning kiddos and our backsides were captured perfectly in the photo. Gracious.)

Here's a shot of our combined classes getting ready to perform.

 

Garrison was quite the focused performer and did such a good job!

 

Singing their little hearts out

 

Taking a bow and accepting applause

 

Here's a shot of the whole school ready to sing. As you can see, the paparazzi flooded the aisle at this point. My little man is on the left side, 2nd row (from the bottom).  

I was so proud of Garrison (and my class!). The program was very entertaining and all in all a success. And I just have to brag on my second born. Austin did amazing throughout the entire performance! Terrell said he was perfectly relaxed and chill the whole time. I never once heard a peep out of him. I was very proud of my littlest man too! Talk about an impressive job by the Selph boys!

After the program we went out to eat with Terrell's parents and my mom. And that's when Garrison became all out of sorts. All the focus and self-control was left at the church. Ha! Thankfully we survived the meal and got the boys in bed at a somewhat decent hour....

Just before a surprise arrived on my doorstep via UPS. Sparkly Green Earrings!! Squeal!! My mom surprised me with me it. Big time! I told Terrell we have to learn how to be like that when we grow up. How to know when our grown children would like a certain something and how to act on it... and have it mailed to them... immediately! He agreed. We want to be like that. =)

**Huge thanks to Pops, Nana, and Granna for coming over in the rain to see our baby in his first performance. Being on a Monday night with an early start time an hour away from B'ville we weren't sure if anyone would be able to make it. So we really, really appreciate ya'll being here! (Thankfully Terrell recorded the whole thing so other family members could see it too. =)

Garrison's 4th Birthday Party

We celebrated Garrison's 4th birthday yesterday with his first ever "friend party". It was so much fun and my little man enjoyed every second. Yaaaay!! We decided that the 4th birthday party (probably for each of our children) will be the first party they get to invite friends from school and have it somewhere other than home (or Granna and Papa's). This past November Garrison attended his first ever birthday party for a friend who was turning 4 and there were a few friends at Garrison's party yesterday attending their first ever friend party. So it seems to be the going age.  

 

Anyway, because Garrison's birthday is in February and it's a very real possibility the weather could be freezing cold or rainy or even snowy, we can't plan for anything outdoors. It's just too risky. And since they're aren't a whole lot of birthday party "on location" options around here, we went with one of Garrison's favorite places ever, Chick-Fil-A! And we are so glad we did. Everything was pretty perfect. =)

 

We chose a baseball theme and the invitations turned out ADORABLE! My wonderful, talented friend Megan designed them. She is the best!! I LOVE the way she makes all of her invitations so personalized and unique to you and what you want. She is just amazing. I highly recommend her!

Speaking of amazing... so is Chick-Fil-A! They did a great job with our party and all the kids loved the play area, loved the food, and loved the ice dream cup they got with their cake. =)

This was the gift/party favor table. Unfortunately I didn't make this picture until the party was wrapping up because the second I got it set up our guests arrived and presents piled up. We did tee-balls and a box of cracker jacks for favors. I think they were a hit... especially with all the boys.

Here is Garrison's adorable jersey cake. It turned out so cute! Terrell "designed" the cake himself... it's the back of a home Braves jersey except with Garrison's name and the number 4. =) We also grabbed a cookie cake so we'd have plenty to share...and because I know from experience some kids prefer "cookie" over cake.

Garrison had the BEST time playing with his friends and cousins. They were wild and crazy going 90 miles an hour! I think everyone had a lot of fun. And no one was hurt. (That's always my fear when a bunch of kids get together in the same space going wide open.) Thank you Lord!

The eating portion of the party went great too. All the kids sat down and ate and enjoyed their kids meals and were very well mannered. And once they finished I gave them the option of going back to play for a little bit or having cake and ice cream... they wanted the sweets!

 

Austin enjoyed himself some chicken nuggets too. =)

 

A great picture of my sister (AnAn) and Frankie!

Garrison listening to everyone sing Happy Birthday. Precious.

 

Blowing out his candle!

After everyone finished cake and ice cream they went back to the play area to play again. Wouldn't you know my child was the last one to leave the table. He's never been one to let food go to waste. Haha.

After another good stretch of play time and once a few of the kids had to get ready to leave, Garrison opened his presents. He was very excited and impressed with his new goodies.

Before leaving Chick-Fil-A I just had to get in a family picture. We were all sort of spent by the end of the party but my family obliged...despite their exhausted state. 

Once we left Chick-Fil-A, my parents, Terrell's parents, and my sister and Frankie came back over to our house to eat supper with us and so Garrison could open presents from them. He loved his gifts and wanted to play with every single thing at the same time.

One of the last presents he opened was a gift from us... a box of animal crackers to go along with tickets to the circus. We're taking him on his annual birthday outing/date with mama and daddy next weekend to the circus. And we're riding a train to get there. Double yay!

We had such a fun day. It was most definitely exhausting but everything went so well. We are especially thankful to our moms and sisters for all of their help! This was our first party to truly be in charge of and it was a lot of work. Way more than I realized! We appreciate all the help with our kids, party supplies, cutting and passing out of cake, presents, clean up, etc. They made things go so much smoother. And we absolutely loved wrapping up the party by eating with family around our dining room table. That made it even more special. Thanks to everyone who helped us celebrate our little man's 4th birthday!! We're pretty sure he LOVED every single thing about it!

Two Bright Spots

Today was not my best day. My big boy started the day in a bad mood. Then my littlest man was in. to. everything. Not that that's anything new, it just got to me more today and stressed me out.

(Have you ever tried vacuuming while a 17 month old is right up under you and pulling pieces off the vacuum and handing them to you and right in your path the entire time?)

We're just smack dab in the middle of Operation Birthday Party is in 1.5 days. Things are just a tad crazy as we clean, shop, prepare, wrap, and finalize last minute details.

So mama just felt impatient and snappy all day. Plus it was cold and rainy so I couldn't even send all the boys outside while daddy grilled tonight.

(My husband insisted on grilling our pork chops because that's what was on the menu and they're just better grilled. They were delish if I do say so myself)

Anyway the two bright spots in my day came after naptime. Austin is getting close to being ready to give up his morning nap. But this morning Garrison and I were trying to clean bathrooms during his morning nap so we needed him to go on to sleep for a little bit. He finally did and this is what I discovered when I went in to wake him up. Somebody's had some naptime shenanigans of his own. =)





Then, after naptime was over for my big boy this afternoon I walked in to discover this: Garrison asleep at the foot of his bed wedged between 2 pillows... with Woody peeking over at him. Haha! It cracked me up so I had to run and grab my phone again.

Shortly after, I heard Austin waking up and getting fussy. His afternoon nap was way shorter than it should have been. I tried to wait it out but baby boy was not going back to sleep. I'm thinking a poo poo diaper might have had something to do with that...

Anyway, I walked in to discover this: He'd been at it again!  And he was making a face at me letting me know how he really felt about the situation. Oh my.

Tonight Terrell tried to get that sheet and mattress cover on as fitted and tight as he could. Goodness gracious. At least I didn't walk in to discover him stripped down or anything.

They are a handful and they most definitely try me and wear me out and make me crazy sometimes, but they're also my bright spots in any rough day. I appreciated all my naptime surprises. They made me smile despite my moodiness. =)

Birthday Recap

Yesterday we celebrated Garrison's 4th birthday as a family. Things didn't go exactly as planned due to Austin not feeling good, BUT, Garrison still seemed to love everything about his special day and that was our goal from the beginning. All in all it turned out pretty great.

 

 

The birthday boy woke up around 7:30 and was greeted by mama and daddy wishing him a happy birthday and a trail of balloons leading to the kitchen. Breakfast is the first thing on both of my boys' minds the second they wake up. 

 

 

Gathering up most of his balloons. The balloons were a big hit! This may have to become a tradition...

 

His next surprise of the morning was breakfast... Daddy got doughnuts the night before and yesterday morning Garrison got to pick out the one he wanted for breakfast. Chocolate with sprinkles please!Then we put candles in it and sang happy birthday to him. His expression while we sang was precious. LOVE!

 

Then he blew out the candles and enjoyed his first ever whole doughnut. It took a while to consume but he made sure to finish every bite and crumb. 

 

And declared it good. =)

Before daddy left for work and Austin woke up the 3 of us played with balloons together and tried not to let them touch the floor. Garrison loved it. =)

Once Austin woke up and finished breakfast I decided he wasn't feeling his best and that we'd need to stay close to home and try to let him take a good morning nap. But before Austin's nap I asked Garrison what he wanted to do. His only request, I want to play with you and Austin today. So sweet. And play is what we did. A lot. Huge messes were made... as displayed below. We had to have a major clean-up time before afternoon naps.

After Austin decided not to take much of a morning nap (he was congested and just couldn't get comfortable and settled) and after an unfortunate incident with a poo poo diaper that left me cleaning it up off the floor, I was starting to feel super guilty. And like Garrison wasn't having a special day at all. Thank goodness I came to my senses and snapped out of it pretty quick. The Lord reminded me that the day was about Garrison, not me and my expectations. He was having fun. He was getting to do the one thing he requested and he was happy. He didn't care about poop on the floor or anything. Ha!

After a quick trip to the grocery store to pick up what we'd need for his birthday supper request (spaghetti), I let him choose any "drive-thru" he wanted for lunch. Taco Bell it is! We had a good lunch and early naps before heading out to run one more errand. And apparently all the birthday celebrating had worn out the little man. I was shocked he fell asleep in the car... especially since he'd just finished "rest time".

After we got home he just wanted to go outside and play. And thankfully the weather was nice so we were able to enjoy lots of time of outside. He was super photogenic and cooperative with having his picture made because I told him I needed lots of pictures of my big 4 year old. =)

Normally when we play outside in the afternoons the mail is delivered so we always walk down and get it together. Yesterday when we checked the mail there was a special delivery for Garrison... a "sticker card" from Granna and Papa. Garrison was thrilled. He immediately ran up the driveway, sat down in his car, and got to work on those stickers. It was so funny. 

Garrison also got several phone calls yesterday... from his grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins, and even from AnAn's class at big school! Her whole class sang him happy birthday. I think he felt pretty special with all the extra attention. He didn't know what to think talking on the phone all day!
He enjoyed all his special meals, lots of play time, the balloons, the phone calls, the card. He had a really fun day.

It's hard to believe my baby is 4. (Do all moms view their big kids or even grown kids as their baby still? Ha) I was having flashbacks all day yesterday of what I was doing 4 years ago. Waiting for him to arrive, his tough delivery, holding him, introducing him to family. It was definitely (and always will be) a very special day.

Now we're getting ready to celebrate again this weekend with his first ever "friend" party. It should be lots of fun! (Which means I need to go get busy crossing things off my to-do list!)